There's two type of people in my mind.
Those who are in the box, and those who are outside the box.
Those who are in the box have the privilege of being in the in crowd.
Whatever they say goes. They enjoy 24 seven heaven on earth around friends.
mostly doing gossiping, talking about others, wealth, like i've said heaven on earth.
Those who are outside the box, get most of the things of those in the box,
but rather in moderation hence there is a difference.
A slight one but a big impact on others.
The one in the box lacks the ability to think as an individual.
Always following the crowd. If one says "A" the others join in unison "A!"
Might it be right or wrong. Those in the box cant really THINK and make a Decision
on their own. Hence, making a lot of wrong judgments towards others.
The best thing of being those outside of the box. We tend to be alone, and have friends who supports rather than laugh. Who Backs others rather than judge. Who does not judge others simply because of their difference. Who are we to judge others really? Even Allah judges us after we've come back to him.
Those outside the box tends to give second chances and a belief of "there is always a reason behind him/her doing that" and "well nobody's perfect."
Again we forget that we are here to learn. Learn from others. Life is one big endless syllabus, let us all learn from every little thing and may we all pass the examanation of life every single year. And be a better person, A better Muslim, Cause at the end of the day, we all want to be closer to Him S.W.T and His beloved S.A.W
For we seek nothing but His Almighty's grace.
End.